Saturday, 1 June 2013

Titah Yang Di Pertuan Agong Diengkari Oleh Pakatan Rakyat.


 Datuk Johari Abdul menjelaskan Himpunan 505 akan terus dilaksanakan bagi menolak keputusan Pilihan Raya 2013, walaupun Tuanku Abdul Halim Mu’adzam Shah, menitahkan rakyat di negara ini supaya menerima keputusan PRU13.

“Jadi tujuan kita berkumpul ialah untuk menyatakan rasa tidak puas hati kita terhadap tindakan SPR, tidak ada niat untuk mempertikaikan pandangan Tuanku.

“Sebab itu setiap kali tamat himpunan 505 kita nyanyikan lagu Negaraku bagi menunjukkan taat setia kepada Tuanku,” kata Johari kepada merujuk kepada lagu Kebangsaan.

Beliau menjelaskan himpunan berkenaan juga akan terus dilaksanakan sehingga pengerusi dan timbalan SPR yang dilantik Agong meletak jawatan.

“Sebagai pemimpin saya menjunjung kasih nasihat Tuanku. Namun begitu rakyat di bawah memohon agar memaklumkan kepada Tuanku ada penipuan yang jelas yang dilakukan oleh SPR,” katanya.

“Jadi sebagai pemimpin, patik-patik semua nak maklumkan kepada rakyat, rakyat harus bangun dan menyatakan rasa tidak puas hati mereka terhadap tindak-tanduk SPR yang ahli-ahlinya dilantik oleh Tuanku sendiri,” jelas Johari.

Tuanku Abdul Halim yang melahirkan rasa sukacita kerana proses pilihan raya umum lepas berjalan dengan tertib dan harmonis bagaimanapun turut mengulangi gesaannya agar semua pihak menerima keputusan yang telah dibuat rakyat iaitu melalui peti undi yang selaras dengan prinsip keluhuran dan kedaulatan undang-undang.

“Jika terdapat sebarang perbezaan atau ketidakpuasan hati, maka gunakanlah mekanisme mahkamah yang sedia ada, sepertimana diperuntukan Perlembagaan dan undang-undang negara.

“Beta tidak mahu mana-mana pihak mengambil sebarang tindakan yang lampau undang-undang, mahupun lampau Perlembagaan,” titah Seri Paduka.

Awal minggu ini, Johari berkata himpunan membantah keputusan PRU13 akan diteruskan bulan ini dan diadakan setiap minggu sehingga tuntutan PKR dipenuhi.

Has justice failed or prevailed ?


A
Whenever the court rules in your favour :
you scream "justice has prevailed",
you praise the judge for being brave,
you smile, cheer and kiss; and
you applaud the system for being fair.

B
Whenever the court rules against you :
you scream "justice has died",
you curse the judge ,
you yell, kick and bite, and
you tell the world that there is a conspiracy against you.


If you find yourself doing both A and B regularly, please go and get your head examined. Preferably by a proctologist.

Mirror Parents


Children are mirrors of their parents. Parents will always be the best mentor for their children.The way we behave is their behavior. The way we walk is how they walk, the way we eat is how they eat, the way we speak is how they speak, and so on so forth.Sometimes we may not notice this, but if we look very carefully, we may find it.

Since we conceived them, they will be what we plan them to be. For example, if the parents brought up the child without warmth and love, they almost certainly will not be a very positive child. However, if the parents take maintains proper nutrition, positive energy, love, healthy energy, proper rest, sufficient exercise, etc., it will be reflected in the child's positive behavior towards the parents and others.

Babies learn by imitation. Have you heard of 'monkey see, monkey do'? Well, when Irina, my youngest, was 2 years old, her first word that come out from her mouth was "NO", not mummy or daddy. It's simply because that's my favorite word to her when she started doing things on her own. And now that she is 3 years old, she's starting to imitate my sentences, the way I talk, and also the way I always behave.

Another example is when my son will start shouting "stupid" to other car drivers if he notices that they simply overtake or drive too fast because that is my husband's favorite word when he is driving. My elder daughter, Ivy, on the other hand, likes to sulk whenever her wish or request is not fulfilled. That is my character as well. All of my children taught me and my husband a lesson by mirroring us.

Most parents face problems with stubborn children. The worse part is when they start to shout back at you when you are trying to stop them from doing certain things that you do not want them to do. So whose fault is that? Actually it is not their fault alone, remember that your children will mirror everything from you. Yes, YOU! Have you ever sit down and recall the way you speak to them, your husband, your mom, your sibling, your friends, or even your neighbors? If not well, you better do it right now.

If you want your children to learn self-control, show it by your example. If in trying to teach self-control to a child, you keep losing your temper, the child will pick up the temper and not the self-control you are trying to teach. Like the Malay saying goes "seperti ketam mengajar anaknya berjalan lurus" (crooked teacher, crooked student).

So from now on, stop blaming your children for their bad behavior. As parents it is our responsibility to correct them when they are wrong and be a good mentor to them. What you need to do is just relaunch yourself, reset you positive mind and your positive attitude, insyAllah they will turn out to be good people in the future