Think you have to be above average in looks to attract women online? Guess again. For years I have been teaching men in countries all over the world to successfully meet and date the most beautiful women online, regardless of what they look like, or how much experience they have had with women
In this discussion I am going to explain:
Exactly how attraction works,
The differences between the way men and women experience attraction.
Why men and women experience attraction differently.
Specific examples of exactly how to attract women online.
How does attraction work?
Before we can learn how to create attraction online, we must understand how it works. What we must understand above all, is that attraction is not a logical choice.
When men and women feel an attraction towards someone else, they don’t sit and logically calculate all the reasons that they feel attracted. They just know.
Think about the last time you saw a beautiful woman. Maybe she had nice curves, a great smile, long straight hair, and a nice fit body. You probably took one look and instantly felt attracted. It wasn’t a choice. You just knew, instantly. This is because the male brain is wired to respond to these types of women.
Attraction is not something we logically sit around and think about. Nor can we convincesomeone to be attracted by being extremely nice. Its either felt, or it isn’t.How is attraction different for women?
Women are wired completely differently than men.
Men are extremely visual. When we see a beautiful face and a curvy body, we are wired to feel an attraction.
Women are not nearly as visual. This is where we luck out. Women are mainly attracted to men based on their internal qualities. When they meet men who have certain personality traits, they feel an instant attraction the same way that we do when we see a beautiful woman.
It isn’t a logical choice. They just feel it. It is our job to learn how to demonstrate these qualities online, and make women feel an attraction that they can’t control. (More on this later)
According to the my research, there are ten basic principles that any man can use to make women feel an attraction that they can’t control, and unlimited ways to apply them online.Why are the male and female brain wired differently?
Hundreds of years of evolution. Men always stood the best chance of having a fertile baby by mating with women who were healthy looking, had clear skin, wide hips, etc. In modern times, this translates to beautiful women who are curvy and have great bodies. Hence, men are mostly visual.
Throughout history women sought men who gave them the best chance to survive. These were men who were protectors, providers, caretakers etc. In modern times, this translates to men who are alpha males, have value in society, show ambition, etc.
It all comes down to evolutionary wiring that still has an effect to this day.
You say looks don’t matter, but they must matter a little right?
Looks matter. They just don’t matter to the extent that most men think they do. Just about any man can make himself attractive enough by putting together the right wardrobe, facial hair, and haircut.
Looks matter more in the sense that we have to look presentable enough for women to take us around family and friends (social approval). If we can accomplish this, demonstrating the right internal qualities will make up for the shortcomings we may have with the looks we are born with.
Just look at all the beautiful women in society who are with guys that aren’t exactly handsome. These men have tapped into the other areas of attraction, whether they realize it or not.
This all makes a lot of sense, but how to I translate this into learning how to attract women online?
Now that we understand how attraction works, we can easily use this knowledge to learn how to attract women online.
We already learned that there are ten basic ways to make any woman feel attraction. Once learning what these methods are, attracting women online is easy.
All we have to do is take them, and infuse them into our written profiles, emails, and photo galleries in as many ways as we possible can. There are literally unlimited ways to do so, .Let’s take a look at an example of how to attract women online with excellent profile writing:
Suppose I want to write what I do for a living. If I were to write,
“I work in sales and love my job,”
I have just bored the reader of my profile to death. This statement does nothing to stand out from the hundreds of other men competing for my girl. She will likely move right on to the next profile.
Now let’s change this sentence by using an understanding of how attraction works:
Original statement:
“I work in sales and love my job.”
New statement:
“Most days of the week you will find me competing for the top sales records in my department. Not only do I get to pursue my passion for a living, but I also get to lead, help others, and meet interesting people every day. What could possibly be better? Well, aside from a date with me. Wink, Wink.”
Now I have taken the the previous sentence, and infused attraction builders by showing ambition, leadership, alpha male qualities, humor, and social value (just to name a few). And this is only one sentence. Imagine the power that writing every line of your profiles and emails with such attention to detail can have.
This is why the online dating help that The REAL Online Game provides has a success rate of over 99%.
Finally…
It is important to understand that if we don’t learn the art of attracting women online by understanding the principles of attraction, then women will judge us based solely on what we look like. A profile filled with boring questions, cliches, and statements, leave women with no choice but to be shallow. Its not their fault.
But if we do learn how to attract women online the right way, we will make them feel an attraction that they can’t control, because let’s face it, attraction isn’t a choice, and you can’t fight science.
